Sreeja Neyatinkara In The Panur Case: ‘I Was Cheated By The Man I Fell In Love With And Married 13 Years Ago’: There is a mixed reaction on social media after the young man killed the young woman by slitting her throat after she withdrew from love in Kannur. ‘Didn’t she paint? This murder is also a realization that there is a killer lurking within those who write without a doubt that this is the punishment. Social activist Sreeja Neyyatinkara is telling her story of having to live ‘cheated’ to those who say that if you withdraw from love, you are free to kill if you are cheated.
Sreeja says that when she realized that she had been cheated on, the first thing she did was take a photo of him and beat him up. Sreeja wrote on Facebook that it doesn’t take much time to get rid of whoever they are the moment they are sure they are done cheating, but the wound they cause will stay with them till they die.
Sreeja Neyyatinkara’s Facebook post:
There are many sayings about falling in love and being cheated. I don’t know what mindset drives people…
I was cheated on by a man whom I fell in love with and married 13 years ago… I can’t describe the moment when I was convinced that I was cheated… I had a photo of me smiling next to him on top of the TV at home… my first reaction was to take that photo and throw it away… I also remember sitting on the ground and crying… Then I wrote something for him to read, cut and corrected everything, wrote again and again and finally teared up the wet papers.
After calming my mind, I went down to the riverside which takes refuge in any crisis… I talked to the river… knowing that all the love I had for him was rapidly disappearing from inside, I called him in the office on the phone… I needed to talk a little and asked him if he could come early in the evening… I even remembered about the trip when I heard his second question, “Are you not going to Ernakulam?” There is a meeting in Ekta Parishad the next day in Ernakulam… I decided to go in the evening… I hung up the phone saying that I will go and talk later…
On the journey to Ernakulam, in the meeting, and on the way back, I was preparing myself.. We talked to each other in the morning after the journey… The moments when I knew the power of cheating or dishonesty.
When I woke up the next day I was surprised and wondered if I had ever felt that I could not live apart from him.. and yet I asked myself how I could sleep without any restlessness…
Whoever they are, it doesn’t take long to get rid of them from our mind the moment we are sure that they are cheated… but the wound they cause will stay with us until we die and it will affect our mental state in many ways… we will still survive..
13 years have passed. I am living with a smile…What has survived…
